Supposedly there are symbols people have to show they're swingers. The upside down pineapple is the most recognizable one (????) but other signs include:
- a black ring on the right hand
- white landscaping rocks (this one can't be real. Unless wayyy more people are swingers that we thought)
- pink or purple yard decorations
- wearing an anklet, toe rings, or thumb rings (bro that's just everyone in the 90s. All 90s people were obviously swingers)
See this is why I never got into drugs or kinky stuff. I just can't pick up on hints or sub textual language. One time I was having an hour conversation about skiing that took a really weird turn once they invited me to the bathroom. That was NOT snow on the sink. You can imagine the confusion.