Turns out those exciting sparks in a romance could be bad news. Or it could be nothing. It all depends on the timing. According to a TikTok dating coach (does she get to have a whistle?), if you feel butterflies past the third date, it could be your nervous system telling you something is off about the relationship.
That seems... like it might just be someone saying something confidently. I don't have enough confidence in my nervous system to believe it could detect some dude's red flags. Maybe if their red flags are drinking and driving or something. But these days red flags are things like too many selfies and I, myselfie, have too many selfies.